As I sat in the audience yesterday, I was thoroughly impressed with how well the family presented their tributes. I was particularly touched by the talk given by my friend, the departed's daughter. He adopted this darling girl and her sister from a Northern Siberian orphanage when he and his wife were in their fifties and had just entered empty nester status. Although she struggled to see her notes through her bleary eyes, she provided a measure of humor by explaining that she had printed off her thoughts in a font that was too small, allowing the audience a much-needed laugh.
Perhaps the most moving part of the service came when the deceased's oldest daughter, a Metropolitan Opera singer, shared the following poem (the same poem shared at her own mother's/his first wife's funeral) right before performing Weepin' Mary:

There was not a dry eye in the building after the performance. Clear, emotive communication is one of the most moving powers the human race possesses. We would be foolish not to practice and perfect such an incredible force.
Wow! That is a beautiful poem. I'm sorry to hear about your neighbor but it sounds like it was a beautiful service. I like the part of the palm that talks about how the sizes only diminished to us. I think goodbyes are sometimes hard because we feel like we're losing something, but really it's leading us for a time so that others can get it on the other side. I will keep your neighbors in my prayers!
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